I"m with every BDSM educator, author, and expert, BIND: never leave someone alone in bondage . That"s what everybody says and, hey, I just said it too. But being left alone in bondage is something many people fantasize about and some people, like your boyfriend"s bondage buddies, will actually do. And while society is willing to sign off on a certain amount of controlled risk-taking in pursuit of non-sexual pleasures—people die skiing, snowboarding, skydiving, scuba diving—we"re less willing to sign off on controlled risk-taking when it comes to sexual pleasures. Because we"re sex-phobic like that. But, yeah, nearly everyone who writes and/or educates about kink will tell you that leaving someone alone in bondage is dangerous. But how dangerous is it? Trikoot, a self-described "kink connoisseur" from Finland who specializes in heavy bondage, sensory deprivation, and multiple layers of fetish gear, wrote a long and detailed post at his blog unpacking ...
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